“ADULT ALCOHOLISM”
NEEDS AND RESTORATION
PART II
In part one of this series we established America is an addictive society. Our citizens are addicted to many “things”, some not so bad and others very hazardous to the individual, the family and to the well being of everyone in our country.
There is always hope for restoration after any addiction. Even after restoration, temptation is often present, but a wholesome recovery program of restoration can be successful.
Unfortunately many persons addicted to alcohol and other forms of addiction never achieve recovery and restoration. They have no real desire to change their lifestyle so they often live a life of reclusiveness and loneliness, most often displaying physical and verbal disrespect for family members, eventually develop a life of illness, disease and pain, and finally become disabled or impaired. These maladies are in addition to a time the alcoholic or other addict may choose to drive an automobile while under the influence and destroy a human life and possibly his own.
These are harsh words, but they are from the heart of one who has observed all of these issues while a child. That child was left without a father at age seven and both grandfathers by age twelve, all due to alcohol abuse. These scares left fear, sadness, confusion and hardship in the hearts of a young family at the end of the great depression when most families were on the road to economic recovery.
THERE IS GOOD NEWS: There are opportunities for restoration. Restoration is vital as alcohol abuse creates many body nutritional deficiencies, medical conditions and body biochemical imbalances. Addictions deplete much of the body’s ability to function normally and we already know causes severe health issues.
Since vitamins, minerals and amino acids are too often depleted due to abuse of alcohol and other substances, good nutrition and nutrition awareness is critical for renewal. A low-carb high protein diet is helpful in rebuilding the body. A program to rebalance the body chemistry is important in restoring the abusers sense of well being and good health. Once understanding the body is being destroyed by addiction the addict must be ready to free himself from the numbing and deadly grasp of alcohol/drug addiction. Many roads initially lead to a 12 step program, but that is neither an adequate nor a complete answer. There simultaneously must be a complete support system, including all family and friends who understand all of the body/brain connection to addiction.
The Twelve Step Program:
The basic features of the 12 Step Program has worked for many but has a basic flaw in that it continually reinforces negative thoughts which create ones basic feelings. The 12 step program teaches one to repeat the following over and over again:
(1) I am an addict.
(2) I am powerless.
(3) Each day I must relieve myself of humiliating things I’ve done when not sober.
The Christian Twelve Step Recovery Program:
This program emphasizes Jesus Christ as the Higher Power in the 12 step program. This is not the case in all other 12 step programs who do a disservice by not emphasizing that it is God alone who has the power to relieve a person of addictive behavior. A Christian program strives to help the addict regain his person through the love of God and the normal life experiences only a relationship with God can provide. A good Christian program begins with a reprogramming of one’s thinking, one’s feelings, a changing of actions and responses, all leading to a changed life style.
Necessary changes are not quickly attained as persons with addictions are too often suffering from family troubles, legal trials, poor personal health and too often issues with their employment. Qualified treatment centers requiring term stays are available and sometimes very necessary to help deal with the many issues surrounding addiction, but they can be expensive.
When looking at a term treatment center, most of which can be viewed on the internet, ask the following questions:
How qualified and experienced is the staff?
How long has the facility been in business?
Where is the treatment center located in relation to your home?
Does the center provide inpatient programs?
Is the treatment comfortable? Clean? What other services does it provide?
What is the cost and will it accept your insurance?
Does the center provide a complete dependency restoration program?
Is there support after rehabilitation?
Is there immediate availability for acceptance?
In Montgomery County, Kentucky there are presently two Christian based programs which meet weekly and provide friendly, healthy assistance. The leaders in each group are all qualified and trained Christian personnel who care and whose primary concern is complete restoration through the love and care of a Christian environment.
Celebrate Recovery is a fellowship and celebration of God’s healing power through the 12 steps and 8 Recovery Principles. The group meets each Thursday evening at 6 P.M. at Gateway Christian Church, 801 Winchester Rd., Mt. Sterling, Ky. Telephone (859) 498-3876
Queen Street Christian Fellowship located at 10 North Queen St., Mt. Sterling, Ky., (606) 224-2393 offers a 12 step and Christian Recovery Program staffed with all qualified and caring staff who focus on healing through application of basic Bible principles. Weekly meetings are held each Tuesday at 8 P.M. with Saturday morning meetings that are soon to be announced.
In both groups mentioned above, there is always someone available as a sponsor or counselor who will be available in times of temptation or trouble when a friend is needed.